When does a narcissist abandon/discard You?

Whenever a narcissist makes the final discard it causes immense trauma in the victim. Imagine you are in an unhealthy relationship but you still want to please the abuser. It is definitely a bad situation and you as a victim get the final blow - whatever you did for them in the past means nothing.

If you understand what a narcissist is:

    An evil being
    With no moral values
    uses and abuses everyone
    A great manipulator
    A pathological liar

You should expect anything and everything. With such a treacherous character, everyone is in grave danger. If you allow your logic to ponder on just the above 5 traits, you do not need to know anything more about narcissists. They stop at nothing.

Victims tend to think that the more pleasing they will be, the more satisfied that the narcissist will be. In reality the submission by the victim completely works against him and brought an experience of horror. The narcissist enjoys the situation and get pleasure by inflicting pain and suffering on you.

So, why should the narcissist stay in a relationship? - because he gets satisfaction and fulfill his pleasure from the supply available. By the same token, a narcissist deals the final discard on the victim when the narcissist is not getting satisfaction.

The narcissist remains in a relation until you fulfill his satisfaction and try to please him. Whenever, he fed up with you, he would not think twice abandoning you. The past experiences, your sacrifices and efforts don't mean to him.

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It is thus crucial for victims to stop trying to please a narcissist. Once you identify your partner as a narcissist, run for your life because the more abuse that you will tolerate, the more that you will damage yourself.

Don't be a thing, that narcissist loves to play with.

Narcissists will not be merciful - they do not care if we jump off a cliff five minutes after we are discarded.

So if you fail to protect yourself, never, ever expect any other person to protect you. You are the sole responsibility of yourself. Narcissist doesn't have pity or compassion for your sufferings and loss.

You should have enough power and determination to say No way. I love myself too much to allow anyone that kind of power over me.

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