How do you successfully Defeat a Narcissist?

Defeating a narcissist and make him taste his own medicine is not a very difficult task. Though, they are master manipulators and know each and every weakness of yours. 

There is only one thing that can make you succeed beating a narcissist is "No Contact". The narcissists crave for attention & admiration and the people become their source of pleasure. If you control your feelings, emotions and don't think about your narcissist and having full dedication then, no one could stop you beating him in his own game.

But, The people lacks self-determination and they grow sympathy in their heart for their narcissists, when the narcissists contact their supplies and relate the ordeal to them and try different manipulative methods like triangulating or gas-lighting.

Whenever, a narcissist try to contact you, message you or try to approach you simply ignore it or you would regret and if you have done this then, you have hit him at the right point.

If you are self-determined to defeat them and you ignore all their messages, calls or contacts then you would definitely succeed. They would try their best to contact you and gain your sympathy again, they would try to relate manipulative stories or ordeal to emotionally break you. But, if you are self aware and conscious enough to not cross the boundaries then you will defeat them.

The narcissist would triangulate by using different people against you to break you and to bring you back to their lives. This is the last effort by them and if you survive this phase of triangulation and remain aloof from them then you are a winner and the narcissist is the biggest looser.

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These are some points to remember always:
  • You can't Break them Emotionally: They are already broken inside and they don't know the words like "Emotions", "Feelings" & "Sympathy".
  • You can't Break them Mentally Either: They are master manipulators and know each and every weakness of yours. They know how to play with you and how to break you.
  • You can't Break them spiritually: The God is not the almighty and supreme authority to them. They are Kings of their own kingdoms.
  • You can Break them Physically: But it is not a good thing to do, as it will land you behind the bars and you wont have a valid justification to prove your not guilty.
  • You can't Break them Socially: Society doesn't mean to them.
You can do only one thing and you should Remember this mantra of Success, " NO CONTACT EVER AGAIN"


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