Flying Monkey: Introduction

These are some characteristics of a person who can be classified as a flying monkey and who has an instill tendency to: 
  • Describe the harmful conduct or evil intentions of other people.
  • Justify Ill- conduct & harmful behavior of others
  • Re-frame as trivial accident (from right or unbiased intentions)
  • Re-frame as Involuntary.
  • Distort harmful events into neutral or positive interpretations.
  • See no wrong, hear no evil, think no mischievous.
  • Justify harmful behaviors & acts.
  • Make it appear that they didn't see anything so that, they never have to be involved and ‘do the right thing’
  • Having no interest in the both sides of the story (but always interested in listening to the pathological liars).
  • Prefer lies over truth as a mean for resolving puzzlement.
  • Obstinately see the positive in everyone right after a narcissist does something unjustifiably harmful (e.g. deliberately walked over on a moped floor)
The flying monkey can be classified in two general types  – ‘complicit and willing’ (conspirator) and ‘well-meaning dupes’ (deluded). 
 Photo Of Monkeys

In summary, anyone who keeps witnessing indubitable harmful acts from an undeniably pathological person who still manages to justify them or their acts, is a flying monkey.
Because of the tendency of flying monkeys to easily incline towards disordered or pathological persons, flying monkeys can not be considered in isolation. If you see a flying monkey, a pathological person would always be nearby.

The flying monkey not only help the evil narcissistic person but also encourages him in a indirect way to inflict more punishment and devastation to the victim.

The victim is already in a tormented state and had suffered lots of mental and physical torture and exploitation as well, the gravitation of flying monkey towards the narcissist increase the magnitude of the pain caused. The narcissist gets encouragement and appreciation from the flying monkey. His acts fuel the already occurred fire and results in various forms of abuse for the victim.

In most of the cases, the  flying monkey causes more trauma and suffering for the victim. In the want of validation and a support from others, sometimes the victims give up the fight and he has to succumb to his sufferings, mental and physical torture.

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